How to Use Money

It's rare these days that I get moved to write. I used to write a lot about politics but soon learned that the quickest way to make an ass out of oneself is not to assume something (as the saying goes) but rather to spout off half-informed political opinions (aren't they all?).

Anyways, this morning I went through my RSS feed, as per my morning ritual, and came across a post by Fred Wilson entitled "Where's my billion dollar check, I wonder?"

It's a great post but what struck me was the following from the comment section (if you went to A&M you know what he's talking about):

Some time ago I was in a fancy restaurant with my wife.  We had a great meal and I had known the owner for decades. 

I saw a young Marine and his girl eating a couple of tables away.  Think small town Texas rock hard movie handsome blonde haired crew cutted stud and his girl as beautiful as Texas bluebonnets in a flowery dress just a bit off the current style. 

As packaging that frock contained a full blooded Texas high school cheerleader just a bit awed by the big city but gamely mixing with the beautiful people.  And her fellow was just home from war and belonged only to her.  It was poignant. 

I could read his medals and knew he had seen action, had been decorated for bravery and was freshly home from war. 

I couldn't take my eyes off them.  It was looking at real life dead in the eyes --- not New York Times life but real life where living and dying is real. 

My wife and I left the restaurant and she stepped outside to summon our car from the valet and I lingered ostensibly to say good bye to the owner. 

I slipped him some cash and and told the proprietor that the young Marine and his gal were now my guest.  It was $200. 

The proprietor smiled and looked me in the eye and thanked me. 

When I got into the car and my wife asked me what had taken so long, I hesitated to respond.
She laughed and said I know exactly what too you so long.  You paid for that Marine's dinner, didn't you? 

I didn't answer because if I had tried I would have broken into tears.  Not because I am a sensitive guy but because in that tableau I saw my own life reflecting back.
And, that, my friend is how the [eff] you use money. 

You make it celebrate life and you make it dance to your own memories and you pass it along.

Point taken.

Guys I Might Vote For in 2012

Mitch Daniels from Indiana says yes to prison reform:

Indiana’s prison population has spiked in recent years, and state officials realized that they were going to have to spend about $1 billion in new prisons over the next 7 years to fit all the prisoners in the state prison system. In response, Governor Daniels announced a plan to study the State’s sentencing laws, together with two non-profit groups, the Pew Center on the States and the Council of State Governments Justice Center, to see if the state’s criminal sentences had become too punitive. The groups published their report, which found that the drug laws had become too draconian and “one size fits all,” and that there wasn’t enough support for susbtance abuse treatment. The report recommended less punitive and more nuanced sentencing laws for nonviolent drug offenses as well as better substance abuse counseling as a way to lessen the prison population and avoid having to build new prisons.

Look Who's Guest Blogging Now

It's me!

The editors over at IliveinDallas.com tracked me down after posting this riveting account of the Bishop Arts District a few months back, and asked if I'd lend my expertise to their readership. Naturally I obliged.


The title is "Where Should I Live in Dallas? The Definitive Housing Guide for Life in the Big D". A ballsy title if ever there was one, but I like to think of it as a challenge if nothing else.

So if you have a few seconds, head on over there and check it out. And if you want to get me an early Christmas present, leave a comment or two as well.

Merry Christmas!

200 Years in 4 Minutes

Amazing!



(via Greg Mankiw)

Travel Safe

Happy Thanksgiving!

Who Is FICA and Why Does He take All My Money?

Pretty sure those were the words of frustration I fumed as a 16 year old working at the mall for $5.70 an hour (minimum wage was $5.15 in 1998 so I felt like I was rolling) upon receiving my first paycheck.

Well my brother in law (the Quixotic Oklahoman) mentioned this over the weekend so I thought I should post it here. My only complaint is that this is broken down as a function of spending, and does not include the cost imposed by tax breaks like the ridiculous $105B mortgage interest deduction (2nd largest only to the employer health care deduction).

And just in case no one else cares to break out the old calculator, 51% of this tax bill goes to Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, Interest on the debt, and Military Spending. Therefore anyone claiming to be interested in balancing the budget without tackling these areas first should be ignored.

Enjoy!

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Obamacare But Were Afraid to Ask

Whether you're for or against the bill, this video from the Kaiser Family Foundation is hands down the best 9 minutes you'll spend informing yourself about what is and what is not (e.g. Death Panels) in the bill. It's actually really well made, fairly entertaining, and worth watching in full.

Seriously, watch it.

(watch me)

Kaiser Family Foundation also put together this handy timeline neatly outlining each phase of the bill. 

Good Policy

Waiting For Superman

Can't wait to see this...

Good and Bad in Afghanistan

 

(via TNR)

Transcendent Technology

Saw this commercial last night while running at the gym and found it to be one of the best commercials I've seen in quite sometime. Yes my judgement is probably somewhat impacted by my recent iPhone purchase and yes the opening scene has about a 100% chance of being me at some point in the relatively near future, but otherwise I'm totally unbiased.

(it really gets good around the 1:00 mark)

Enjoy!

Note to Self

Don't miss the point:




Happy Father's Day!

If You Can Read This Message...

life_infographic (by loukaskk)

Via Hiten Shah

And the Winner Is...

NICK GIGLIA whose winning comment was the following:

I've dedicated my life to finding passion and meaning through work and entrepreneurship. I would love to read this book and benefit from someone else's perspective on these matters.

Great comment Nick. Hope you enjoy "Delivering Happiness" as much as I did.

For anyone else interest in the book, it's now available over at Amazon.

How to Balance the Budget

The CFRB recently put out a budget simulator that allows you to try and stabilize the budget (60% of GDP) by 2018. Pretty exciting stuff, right?

Well thanks to Ross Douthat, here's what it would take to achieve this goal:

1. means-testing Social Security and raising the retirement age to 68
2. keeping health care reform in place but slashing its insurance subsidies by 20 percent
3. increasing cost-sharing and premiums for Medicare and raising the retirement age to 67
4. passing tort reform
5. returning food stamp spending to 2008 levels
6. slashing subsidies for agriculture and biofuels
7. cutting the federal workforce by 5 percent across the board
8. cutting earmarks by 50 percent
9. converting the home-mortgage deduction to a smaller credit
10. replacing the tax deduction for employer-provided health care with a flat credit
11. increasing the gas tax by 10 cents a gallon
12. cutting foreign aid and military spending by $200 billion
13. drawing down troop levels in Iraq and Afghanistan to 60,000 in 2016
14. taxing life insurance benefits
15. letting the Bush tax cuts expire for high earners and partially phasing them out for the middle class
16. eliminating the state and local tax deduction
17. and cutting out a lot of smaller things as well.

 Piece of cake...

Does Money Motivate Higher Performance?

From Dan Pink's "The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us" . This may be one of the most interesting videos I've seen lately:




(h/t Brad Feld)

Two Years Old on Two Packs a Day

This is sad. Two years old, (two years!) and smoking forty cigarettes a day.

I'm dumbfounded.

Book Giveaway: "Delivering Happiness" by Tony Hsieh

From time to time having your own blog pays off in pretty cool (albeit mostly geeky) ways. One such occurrence took place about a month ago, when I was selected to receive an advanced copy of Tony Hsieh's (CEO of Zappo's) new book Delivering Happines: A Path to Profits, Passion, and Purpose.

Now I'm probably like most of you guys in that I had only used Zappo's once before, and had honestly never heard of Tony Hsieh. In short, I didn't know what to expect from the book.

Well I read it over the weekend , and I have to say that it made a lifelong Zappo's customer out of me. In fact I almost bought a pair of shoes yesterday just because I liked the book so much. Andrea just laughed at me as I went on and on about this guy.

Anyways, I'm legally required to wait until June 7th for an actual review, so for now here's a couple reviews from famous people to further pique your interest:

–Tim Ferriss, Author of The 4-Hour Workweek

Tony Hsieh has done a huge amount of thinking about how to bring happiness to himself, to employees, and to customers, and in this fascinating (and often hilarious) account, he explains how he turns his beliefs into actions that really do deliver happiness.

–Anthony Robbins, Author of Unlimited Power and Awaken the Giant Within


Delivering Happiness is a glimpse into the mind of one of the most remarkable business leaders of our time.  Like its author, the book is authentic, oddly original, doesn’t take itself too seriously—yet delivers a potent message.  Weaving together history, personal philosophy, and insights from one of the most intriguing companies in world, Delivering Happiness works on the mind, the heart, and the soul.  This book needs to be read by anyone who takes the happiness of other people seriously.

How to Win a Free Copy (w/ free shipping)*

(contest is now closed)

1. Leave a comment stating why I should send you the book no later than midnight June 6th (as many as you want).

2. Be sure to include some way for me to contact you.

That's it! I'll pick a # at random and that person will be notified on June 7th of their winnings. This blog averages 1 comment per post so the odds of winning are EXTREMELY high. So to the four of you who actually  leave comments, I say good luck!

Death Creates An Economy That Makes Life Precious

Came across an interview with Stanley Hauerwas, one of my brother-in-law's former professors at Duke Divinity School, on the subject of how his Christian faith had shaped his view of death.

The above quote might be one of the most beautiful phrases I've heard on this subject, and is the reason I posted it here. However equally as intriguing is his mention of the the phrase "save us from a sudden death" in the Book of Common Prayer, and how that differs from the modern desire to die in such a way that we avoid any knowledge of our death.

Hauerwas postulates a shift towards fearing death over fearing God, and ends the video with his view on what "a good death" looks like. Good stuff.



Reflections on Death from CPX on Vimeo.

Evening Links

Consumer credit making a comeback?

Unemployment and the Battle of the Sexes (h/t wonkbook)

Edward Glaeser on the the climate bill and the case for a carbon tax.

Election season: In China?:

For the voters, electing the Party secretary is like "selecting products they favor in the supermarket", said Chen Jian, a township government official, who was sent by Yongning to take part in the election of Houchong. "We candidates stand on the stage for them to compare and choose."

So thaaaat's how it works.